You Don’t Attract What You Want…

abundance manifesting Sep 21, 2025
You Don’t Attract What You Want…

This Week's Message...

  • Why “wanting it more” and “working harder” might be the very thing keeping you stuck
  • The surprising truth about manifestation (it’s not vision boards, affirmations, or wishing harder)
  • How embodying the feelings of what you desire now creates the results you’ve been chasing

Dear Entrepreneur,
For years I believed the lie: “If you want it badly enough and work hard enough, you’ll get it.” 

That belief built $17M in my first business — but it also nearly broke me. 

The 2010 version of me would have rolled her eyes at words like “manifestation” or “mindset.” I thought those things were for woo-woo people, not serious entrepreneurs. My formula was simple: outwork everyone. Hustle harder. 

But here’s the problem… if hard work alone guaranteed success, every exhausted woman grinding 60+ hours a week would already be living her dream. And we both know that’s not reality. 

I kept trying to “do more,” but the more I did, the less it felt like it was working. 

Then, in 2012, I was introduced to The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. In 2017, a marketing coach nudged me toward affirmations and vision boards. I dabbled — but I didn’t truly believe. Until the summer of 2018, when I committed to a morning routine for 90 days… and doubled my income (more on my routine coming in October). 

That was my first crack in the business strategy-only foundation I’d been living on. 

And just this year, at Cathy Heller’s Infinite YES retreat, it all finally clicked. Cathy said:
 “You don’t get what you want. You get what you are.” 

It hit me. The reason I wanted money wasn’t the money itself — it was the feeling of safety and ease. The reason I wanted health wasn’t the scale or the look — it was to feel alive. 

The key to manifesting isn’t chasing those things. It’s embodying those feelings now. 

Want more money? Start feeling secure and supported today.
Want health? Start embodying energy and strength now.
Want freedom? Start treating yourself like a woman whose business already runs smoothly — right now. 

When I began living from that energy instead of constantly chasing it, everything shifted — dream clients, winning gift cards, a TV appearance (!!), and my best income month yet (more on this in October). 

And here’s what most entrepreneurs miss: strategy without identity is like pouring water into a cracked cup. You can work harder, pour more in… but nothing holds. 

The truth is, I teach business strategy. That’s the backbone of everything I do inside my signature program, The Legacy Business School. But here’s the key: before we can map out your strategy, every client starts with clarifying their personal vision. Because if you don’t know what you truly want — and why you want it — no amount of strategy will move you where you really want to go. 

That’s usually where mindset naturally weaves in. Not because I teach mindset as its own thing, but because defining vision brings up the beliefs and identity that either support your growth… or block it. 

The version of me who hustled harder could never have manifested this life. But the version of me who chose to embody ease, safety, and joy? She’s the one who receives it all. 

And you can too. 

That’s exactly what we uncover in a Scale Strategy Session. Yes, we build the strategy. But we also ensure the woman you’re becoming can actually hold the results you’re working toward. 

👉 Book your complimentary 30-min Scale Strategy Session here — and let’s create your next 90 days with ease, clarity, and power. 

👇 Now scroll down to this week’s MOVE section for your weekly action step.

Remember to live your one life,

 💗Sailynn...

Your FUN Business Coach

Creator of The Legacy Business System

P.S. If this former hustle-harder girl can manifest a TV appearance by shifting who she is… then you can absolutely manifest the business and life you desire, too. Let’s get you there. 👉 Book your complimentary 30-min Scale Strategy Session here — and let’s create your next 90 days with ease, clarity, and power.


 

Spark

Inspiration to uplift your mindset and set the tone for your week. 

You don’t attract what you want. You attract what you are. 💡

So instead of chasing outcomes, ask: “Who am I being right now?”

Am I embodying safety, abundance, ease… or am I embodying hustle, scarcity, and exhaustion?

Your results will always mirror your identity, not your to-do list.


Move

One simple action step to improve your business this week. 

 Define your “embodied entrepreneur self.”
Grab your journal and write down: 

  • Who do I need to be in order to create the results I want? 
  • What 3 feelings do I want to embody daily (safety, joy, clarity, abundance, etc.)? 

What’s one action I can take this week that matches those feelings?
When you start being her now, your strategy has a container strong enough to hold the results.


Momentum

Wins and progress from women like you, showing what’s possible.

“I first met Sailynn at a networking event, surrounded by a vibrant room filled with diverse, powerhouse women entrepreneurs. To be completely honest, I walked in in feeling pretty confident, thinking “I’ve got this, I’m thriving!” Little did I know, this spontaneous 15-20 session with Sailynn would totally shift my perspective.

Wow! Sailynn’s business philosophy and innovative approach were exactly what I didn’t realize I needed. Her energy is infectious, her knowledge impressive, and her creativity inspiring. I walked away from that brief encounter buzzing with fresh ideas and concepts I hadn't discovered on my own, even after nearly 2 decades in business.

If you EVER have the chance to connect with Sailynn, don’t hesitate. She’s one of those rare gems who insights genuinely ignite your own inner wisdom and passion for what ever it is that you want to bring into your business and your community. Again, You don’t even know your business needs her, but it absolutely does! Xoxo!” – Clara B. Counselor


Fuel

Tools or resources you can use now to add clarity and ease to your business.

📚 This week’s resource: Abundant Ever After by Cathy Heller.
Her book beautifully explains the art of embodying your desires and aligning your energy with what you want to create. It’s a practical and soulful companion to the strategy work we do here. If you’ve struggled with making manifestation “click,” this will feel like fresh oxygen for your business and your life.


Next Step

Your invitation to explore deeper transformation and growth when you're ready.

1) The Scale-Ready Blueprint: How Ambitious Women Business Owners Can Break Through the 6-Figure Ceiling Without Working 50+ Hour Weeks!

Discover The 4 Hidden Business Pillars That Transform Your Exhausting 6-Figure Business Into A Streamlined 7-Figure Operation Download Your Blueprint

2) Complimentary Scale Strategy Session

In this focused 30-minute session, we'll identify the exact gaps keeping your 6-figure business stuck in the growth phase and map out your personalized path to scaling with more freedom and less overwhelm. Book Your Session Here

3) The Legacy Business School

Join the 2% of Women Who Scale to $1M —

Without Hustling Harder or Squeezing Yourself Into a Cookie‑Cutter Plan.

The Legacy Business School: A 4 Core Pillar Rock‑Solid Business Foundation Built Around Your Energy, Vision & Freedom — In Just 90 Days. Learn More

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