The mental health scare caused by my business
May 03, 2026
This Week's Message...
- The distance between where you are and where you want to be isn't a talent gap. It's a time gap. And time is the one thing you can't get back.
- I redesigned my business from the inside out and it took me two years of doing it completely alone. That doesn't have to be your path.
- The business keeps you busy. But busy is not the same as present. And presence is the thing that can't be recovered once it's gone.
Dear Entrepreneur,
In 2010, I was sitting in front of a client’s home at 9am in my suit & heels, having just covered a caregiver shift myself because the business I'd built had no real infrastructure, just me, in different outfits, holding everything together.
I'd built a million-dollar senior home care franchise. I was working 80-plus hours a week. And I was completely, utterly done.
That morning, I made a decision. I drew a line in the sand. I declared out loud, to no one, in that car but myself — Something has to change.
And I meant it.
Here's what I didn't know yet: meaning it and actually doing it are two very different things when you're trying to figure it out alone.
It took me two full years
2οΈβ£ years from that car moment to October 2012, when I finally loaded up my RV and left for 30 days and the business didn't fall apart without me.
2οΈβ£ years of late nights rebuilding systems from scratch.
2οΈβ£ years of doubt wondering if I was doing it right, if it was working, if I was just rearranging desk chairs.
2οΈβ£ years of trying something, watching it not quite work, adjusting, trying again.
I wasn't unskilled. I wasn't a newbie. I was just doing something extraordinarily hard without a roadmap, without a room, and without someone who had already walked it standing next to me saying yes, that, do more of that.
Actually all my franchisor kept saying when I called for help was… keep working and it will figure itself out… (it didn’t).
May is Mental Health Awareness Month. And it is the reason I am sharing something today that I have never put in writing before.
And here is the part I don't talk about often. The part that has nothing to do with revenue.
During those two years, someone very close to me was going through something serious. A mental health crisis that, looking back, had signs everywhere. Cries for help that were right in front of me.
I missed all of them.
Not because I didn't love this person. Not because I didn't care. But because I had convinced myself that once I got the business fixed, then I would deal with it.
Once I got this system in place, once I got through this quarter, once things settled down a little — then I would be present. Then I would pay attention. Then I would show up the way I knew I needed to.
The business never settled down. Because a business that runs through its owner never settles down on its own.
Thankfully, everything turned out okay. But I have regrets about that season that I carry to this day. Not about the late nights. Not about the hard work. About the person who needed me and found me unavailable, in the room but not really there, because I kept telling myself it could wait until the business was fixed.
It couldn't wait. It never could.
That phrase — "once I get this fixed" — is one of the most expensive things we say to ourselves.
If you are a woman who is trying to hold all the pieces of life and business together right now — I see you.
If you are a mom who is trying to be present and still pay the bills — I see you.
If you are a best friend who has passed on girls' night one too many times because work wasn't done — I see you.
If you are a spouse or partner whose relationship is getting harder the more you work — I see you.
If you are a daughter trying to keep an eye on mom while also keeping your business from falling apart — I see you.
You went into business for more time, more freedom, more flexibility, and more money. And let's be honest — you have more of all of that than you would tied to a 9-to-5. But it is not the version you envisioned when you started. Not yet.
The freedom exists on paper more than it does in your actual life. The flexibility gets eaten by the business before you can spend it on the things that matter. The money is there in the revenue number, but somehow not quite there in your bank account or your peace of mind.
That gap — between what you built and how it actually feels to live inside it — is not a character flaw. It is not proof you are doing something wrong. It is what a successful first million looks like before the infrastructure catches up to the growth.
And it is exactly why I built The Simply Rich Business Experience.
Because you need a proven roadmap from someone who has been in your exact shoes and gotten to the other side.
Not someone who read about this problem.
Not someone who worked in corporate with a similar problem.
Not someone who got certified in this problem.
Someone who lived it, cried through it, and rebuilt from the inside out.
You need someone who can see the big picture while you are still inside the daily operations, to give you the perspective you cannot have when you are the one holding everything up.
And you need support from someone who will be your biggest cheerleader while also giving you the hard truth. Not one or the other. Both. At the same time.
The 12 months between now and May 2027 are going to pass either way.
You know this already. You feel it. The older we get, the faster the years move. The quarters go by. You look up and it has been another year of almost.
Almost stepping back.
Almost getting out of the weeds.
Almost having the business feel the way you always said it would feel once you got things sorted.
The only question is what your life looks like on the other side of those 12 months. Not just your business. Your life. The people in it who need the version of you that isn't still running on fumes and telling herself once I get this fixed.
I spent two years doing this alone so I could build a roadmap that means you don't have to.
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If any part of this landed — if you felt even a flicker of recognition — I'd love to get on a call with you before the door closes.
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Remember to live your one life,
πSailynn...
Scale & Systems Strategist for Service-Based Women Business Owners
Creator of The 16-Hour Owner System
Founder of Simply Rich
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