The 3 Simple Steps to Get What You Want in Life

Sep 14, 2021
The 3 Simple Steps to Get What You Want in Life

Do You Want to Live Your Life on Your Terms?

I am an only child, redhead, and maybe a tad bit crazy, but my life goal was always to live on my terms!  Which meant, having the ability to do what I wanted, when I wanted, from where I wanted!

It was not always like this though!  When I started my career making $12/hour out of college back in 2000, my life, finances, and schedule were mainly determined by my job!

Today things are different, I have achieved my life goal and it is my mission to help other women entrepreneurs do the same!  And in this video I am going to share with you the 3 steps you need to take to be able to live life on your terms too!


So many of the women I work with say I want to be happy – but we all want that, the question is what does happy mean to you!  I have tried many different things in order to find happiness and by process of elimination, I always move closer to my sweet spot of happiness!

There are 3 steps you need to take to live life on your terms!

Step 1:

  • Decide what you want
    • Seems simple but if you have ever struggled to answer the question “what do I want to be when I grow up” then its not that simple
    • Maybe you took a job out of college because it was offered and you were broke, not because it was what you wanted
    • Maybe you might have settled for who you spend your time with because you were afraid to be alone
    • Maybe you buy things because that’s what you think you need to be happy

So how do you decide what you want?

If you cannot answer "what do you want or what are you passionate about", let’s do what I find is much easier – "what do you not want"?

  • If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
  • If you could have any career what would it be?
  • If you could be surrounded by certain people, who would they be?
  • If you could feel a certain way daily, how would you feel?

The goal is to be as specific as possible!

Saying I want to live somewhere warm is not deep enough!

This is the time, you need to do some soul searching and really decide what it is you want!

  • Why someplace warm?
  • In your current country or someplace else?
  • Warm – humid or dry?
  • All these things help you narrow down and make you really define that vision for your life!


So in order to get started on the life you want, you need to start with defining what it is exactly you truly want!  And really dig deep until you get that warm fuzzy excited feeling in your belly that sets you on fire!

I have a quick and simple article that will give you all 3 steps you need to define a life that you love so you can live on your terms!

 DM me the word STEPS and I will send the article with the 3 simple steps since we only had time to cover one of them here! You are going to want to move to step 2 in order to truly live life on your terms!

Life is a Journey and I am so glad you are on it with me!

xoxo Sailynn...

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